At one point, you just know it. Something is wrong. But you get aggravated to a memory, to an idea, to a feeling that once meant everything.
When the heart does not want to feel what the soul already knows
There are times when everything within you screams that something is wrong, and despite this you remain. Feel the weight, the silence, the inner void … but you are still waiting.
Why? Because once you believed it makes sense. Because you would have liked it to be different. Because you created image, which was too beautiful to be forgotten.
But it is precisely there that the trap is hidden: you cling to something that it is no more real. Maybe he never was. And even if you know deeply, you are afraid of letting him go. You are afraid of the void that would remain. But in this void there is room for something better.
The power of illusion
Sometimes we cling more to the hope than to the truth. Hopes that something will change. I hope your love, your commitment and your patience are sufficient. But there are things you can’t solve yourself.
The illusion can be sweet. A feeling of familiarity, a family and painful comfort. It is easier to remain faithful to what you know rather than risk the unknown. But do you think about how much you lose when insisting on what suffocates you? How many times have you silenced your intuition to be able to listen to an illusion?
Fear of loss or fear of growth?
The real reason why you cling often is not love, but Fear. Fear of being alone. That you missed the opportunity. That you will have to start over. But if you stay in the wrong story, close the door to the right one. One who does not oblige yourself to adapt, to lose you.
Sometimes it’s not that something is not for you, it’s that you are Grow out of this. And this is not a defeat: it is proof that you are evolving.
The calm after the storm is freedom.
When you finally let things go, the people, who suffocate you, arrives silence. Not what hurts, but what he heals. This does not mean you don’t care. It means that you have chosen yourself. That you are Stop nourishing the hope that he was draining you. In this silence, for the first time, you feel. No voice from the past, no sense of guilt, no struggle.
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You start returning to yourself. To the questions you have kept hidden for some time. To the feeling of being more than a compromise. And then you realize that you have not lost anything of what really belongs to you.
Fear binds you more than love
What binds you is not a link, but a chain. Not an emotion, but fear of empty space. But this space is necessary. Only in it can something new be born. Something that you don’t suffer silently. Who will not force you to doubt yourself every day.
Accepting that something does not belong to you, even if you want it with all your heart, is one of the most difficult things to do. But also one of the liberating. When you say “enough”, do not conclude the story – make room for a new chapter.
Stop fighting for a swallow of attention, for crane of emotion, for words that always come too late. You are complete. You are enough. And your peace is not something that should be questioned.
In the end, stay
When everything has calmed down, only you remain. With your vulnerability. With your power. With your determination not to give yourself less than you deserve. You cling up because you believed. Now believe in yourself, in yourself. Don’t wait anymore. No tests are no longer needed. Only the way to follow.
