Why do you find yourself in relationships in which your needs are silent? Do you hope that someone notice you? How long will you continue to give everything without receiving anything in return?
Somewhere inside you, there is still a silent spark of hope that someone will see everything you are. That he sees through the walls you have built because of the disappointments. But in reality you have been knowing for some time that fighting against unpaid love is useless. And there is something very silent and at the same time very painful in all this. Something that tires the soul.
Don’t try to be enough for someone who is looking for something else.
You can engage more, give more, keep silent, but this never changes the fact that that person will not leave you in doubt. If you have to convince you that he loves you, then he never had you. And it is not your job to become someone else to deserve something that should come naturally.
Love does not cause agitation. It does not require tests. He does not leave a void after each conversation. She is calm. Immobile in its certainty. It does not replace you. It is not comparable. Don’t go silent.
It is not always necessary to understand why someone does not remain.
Sometimes the most painful thing is not to have an answer. Which is not a question of the wrong time, nor too much or too little. Simply someone didn’t know how to see you. It’s not your fault. There are hearts that are not ready to love what you are..
This does not mean that you are too much. It simply means that you arrived with true love in a place where there is no room for it. And once you understand this, do not reproach it to anyone, nor to them or yourself. Don’t force it anymore. Go away quietly. With everything you wanted to share, but now you keep for you, for someone else.
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True love does not need adaptations.
Someone who really understands you will not manipulate you.. He won’t set you aside. It will not need explanations for why you feel what you feel. It will accept you with everything you have: without negotiations, without excuses, without delays.
When you fall in love with someone who cannot reciprocate your love, you start thinking that the problem is your love. But that’s not the case. The problem is that you put it where it could not grow. And the greatest power you have is admitting to yourself: I have given enough. I waited enough. Now I go.
There is a love that won’t hurt you.
He won’t ask you any questions. It won’t worn you with silent waste. It will simply exist. In the village. And between you.
It will not be a competition. It won’t be a test. No effort will take us. Only presence. Deep, kind, sure. And then you will discover that love has never needed to be chased. Simply create a space where she can find you. When you stop running away from yourself.
