Why do we always look for the right time to love? What if this time didn’t even exist? And if someone is really the right person for you, why should you wait?
Have you ever thought you had met someone too early? Is it too late? Have you ever wondered what would happen if our paths crossed a year later, when we would be more “prepared”? But if this were just an excuse? What if “the wrong time” simply meant that the person was not right?
Nobody enters your life according to the plans. The right person does not show up when you have everything under control. The right person arrives just when it seems that there is no room for love. When you are in transition. If in doubt. Moving. And that’s why his arrival is crucial.
In relationships, we often blame time. Too much work, removals, old wounds, wrong time. We use all this as a shield against what we don’t dare admit: if you really want someone, you will find a place. No later. Now.
Time is an excuse when the heart is not sure
The love that needs ideal conditions is not strong enough. A real relationship does not make you wait. A real relationship It takes away the courage to take risks.even if you still don’t have all the answers.
When someone is real, we are not talking about distance, of the past or the wrong time. Here’s when it comes to how to resist. How to stay. How to find a way to go on, together.
If there is something that holds you down, it’s not time. This is a doubt.. And if there is any doubt, there is also a reason why the relationship has not worked.
The right person changes the rhythm of everything
Life becomes complicated with wrong people. You are constantly weighing, adjusting, waiting, reflecting. For them, time is a pressure. You don’t feel sure with them. Only uncertainty, only questions.
The right person does not impose you an extra weight. With her Chaos slowly acquires meaning. It is not a question of simplifying your life, but of having someone by your side that you want to include in your life. Even when it is not easy.
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Nobody is completely ready for love.
Waiting for the “right moment” is an illusion. Nobody comes to a point where everything is solved, everything is clear and the heart does not bring scars. A similar moment does not exist.
Love comes unexpectedly. And it often happens when you feel less comfortable. Then check how much you are willing to risk. Do you trust your instinct or do you hide once again behind an excuse?
If someone is right, time does not win.
The wrong people offer ideal scenarios but have no solidity. The real ones carry chaos with them and remain. True people don’t ask you when things will improve. They simply ask: “Where can I participate now?”
Do not underestimate the right person only because the situation is not under control.. Even if there is no “right moment”, the right person changes the meaning of the moment you are. Everything that matters is the will to try.
It will not be easy with the right person. It is about making it worth it. Time is not the decisive factor. It’s you.
