If I ever thought that nobody could fall in love with you, know that this thought is not true. It is the result of wounds, bad experiences, comparisons and inner fears.
If today you think that nobody can fall in love with you, then I have to ask you one thing: have you really forgotten who you really are?
Have you forgotten how many times have you raised when life hit you? Have you forgotten?How many people did you make you laugh before you believe you deserve a smile? Have you forgotten how many nights you spent alone, without weighing anyone with your burden?
It is not true that you are not worthy of love.
It is not true that nobody will love you. If you think so it is only because you put your heart too many times in the hands of people who have taken it for granted. And do you know one thing? It’s not your fault. But this is not a reason to start believing that you are not enough.
No, you don’t have to be more fun, more “worthy”, more … you don’t have to transform yourself into someone else. Those who do not know how to love you will not know how to love you, no matter how much you try.
The right person will find you when you stop playing.. When you stop pleased. When you stop hiding all the parts of you that you love the most, just to be more nice.
And yes, it may not be today. Maybe it won’t be tomorrow. But who knows how to love you will not love you despite everything you are. He will love you for what you are.
Just because you haven’t met the right person yet it doesn’t mean you are “difficult”. It simply means that you don’t have time for superficial things. And believe me, the world is full of people who don’t have the courage to really love. Who are looking for something quick, something that does not damage them too much, something that does not change them too much.
But you’re not like that. And you’ve never been.
And if today you are sitting alone, without a hand in the hand, without a message on the phone, without anyone who looks at you as you would like to be looked at, this does not change the fact that you have more to offer half of this world.
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Your silence is precious. Your dedication is precious. Your truth is precious.
Someone will come. And he won’t ask you why you’re silent, because sometimes you are sad, because you don’t fake. He will tell you: “Finally someone who is true”.
And do you know one thing? At that moment you will stop doubting yourself.
Stay yourself. Because what you are is exactly what someone is looking for. And when that person arrives, any doubt, every wound, every silence will take on a meaning.
Believe me, someone will be able to see you. Not despite who you are, but precisely for this.
